Other Options When Facing an Unplanned Pregnancy
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- Heavy bleeding — soaking two or more pads an hour for two hours.
- Severe abdominal or back pain.
- Fever lasting more than 24 hours.
- Foul-smelling vaginal discharge.1
No matter what your circumstances, you have options if you find yourself unexpectedly pregnant. Almost half of all pregnancies in the United States are unplanned, so you are in good company if your pregnancy took you by surprise!2 Before you make any decisions, take a deep breath and remember that many women have been in your shoes and successfully navigated their way to a choice that worked for them.
Almost half of women who unexpectedly find themselves pregnant choose to raise their children themselves.3 It is possible to experience an unforeseen pregnancy and still attend school and college, get and keep a job, and maintain friendships and a full life. Challenges will certainly come, but whether a woman chooses to marry the child’s father or not, outside help is available to make the situation easier.
Organizations such as churches and pregnancy help organizations (both secular and religious) are available to help women who choose to parent their babies. As of 2017, there were 2,752 pregnancy help centers across the country!4 Be aware clinics who offer abortion profit if you decide to abort, so you may find the best encouragement for continuing your pregnancy by seeking a true pregnancy medical center.5 If you need information or directions to a center near you, you can contact us or go to optionline.org. We are here to help.
If you decide to place your child for adoption with a loving family, know that you as a birth mother can decide what kind of adoption would be best for you and your baby. Every year, roughly 14,000 women in the United States make the decision to make an adoption plan for their child, and each woman is given the opportunity to choose how involved she wants to be with both the adoption process and the child to whom she has given birth.6
Some birth mothers choose an open adoption, in which they are able to communicate with their babies and the adoptive families.7 There are many kinds of open adoptions available, from those with just minimal contact to those in which the birth mother plays a major role in the life of the child she has placed. So you can choose not only whether to have a closed or open adoption, but also what level of openness you feel is best. To learn more about available options, please feel free to contact us or bethany.org.
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